🍽️ Buckle up, folks! We've got a sizzling hot story straight from the kitchen of a couple's quarrel! 👩❤️👨 Meet our main man, a 34-year-old gent who recently shacked up with his 35-year-old girlfriend. 🏠 But hold on to your aprons, because this culinary cohabitation has turned into a full-blown food feud! 🥘🔥 Our guy just wants to live his best life, eating what he wants when he wants, but his girlfriend? She's got a serious case of meal planning mania! 📅🍳 Let's dive into this tasty tale of love, food, and the battle for spontaneity! 😋👇
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Yikes! Looks like this couple's kitchen is heating up, and it's not just the stove! Our laid-back lad just wants to live in the moment when it comes to his meals, but his girlfriend is all about planning life! She's constantly grilling him about what he wants to eat, pushing for weekly meal charts, and even asking for grocery lists! But our guy? He's not having it. He's a grown man who can fend for himself in the food department, thank you very much! Despite his girlfriend's insistence on planning and ingredient coordination, he's standing his ground. No Excel sheets for this dude! Now, the question is on everyone's mind.
Meal planning shamed as weird obsession! YTA 🙄
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Meal planning is normal, but living with you would be hard 😅
looj87 | looj87
ESH - Both need to compromise for a meal plan 🍕
invomitous-rex | invomitous-rex
Meal planning saves time and money, NTA for not doing it.
GreatScotRace | GreatScotRace
Meal planning can be helpful in reducing food waste and saving money.
CupofCursedTea | CupofCursedTea
Planning ahead saves time & money on groceries. 🍴💰
Maleficent_Ad_3958 | Maleficent_Ad_3958
Meal planning isn't insane, but communication is key 📖
cutenele1997 | cutenele1997
Meal planning conundrum: compromise or relationship on the line? 🤔
TheCityThatCriedWolf | TheCityThatCriedWolf
User thinks OP is acting childish and suggests compromise. 🤨
umeanalatte | umeanalatte
Being in a relationship requires compromise. 👨👩👦 Meet in the middle. 🌟
Dry_Dragonfruit_4191 | Dry_Dragonfruit_4191
Meal planning is a great way to save money 💰 and reduce impulsive buying 👊
pcgamergirl | pcgamergirl
NTA for wanting to meal plan separately, but YTA for not compromising.
Piebandit | Piebandit
GF calls out OP for childish behavior and lack of care 😡
barugosamaa | barugosamaa
NAH. Some are planners, some aren't. She wants to make you happy 🤷♀️
Glum_Truck_724 | Glum_Truck_724
YTA for dismissing meal planning and shaming her for wanting structure 👎
BigDaddyTrixter | BigDaddyTrixter
Planning meals saves money and encourages family time 👍
FrauAmarylis | FrauAmarylis
Weekly meal planning is not common in all cultures. 😕
MrsRoronoaZoro | MrsRoronoaZoro
Insufferable attitude while meal planning? YTA according to commenter.
SnooCakes9110 | SnooCakes9110
Foodie vs Non-Foodie: A Couple's Meal Planning Story 🍟
Alarming-Isopod-7429 | Alarming-Isopod-7429
Don't be the a**hole, compromise with your meal planning girlfriend
Worldly-Tart-666 | Worldly-Tart-666
Meal planning struggles, flatmate vibes, and relationship predictions
ZealousidealLuck6961 | ZealousidealLuck6961
Meal planning: YTA for handling, NTA for food habits. Discuss it.
WolfieAlt | WolfieAlt
Compromise with meal ideas - YTA for handling it poorly 🤨
angel37455 | angel37455
Compromise with her and cook a few meals together 🍳❤️
-Rhymenocerous- | -Rhymenocerous-
Communicate with kindness and ask why she wants to plan. 🤔
madelyn_g | madelyn_g
YTA for being rude and entitled about meal planning. 😕
Comprehensive_Pay916 | Comprehensive_Pay916
Partner wants to plan meals in advance, YTA for ridiculing her.
Ms-Watson | Ms-Watson
Partner called out for not participating in household meal planning 😖
sparklymeteorite | sparklymeteorite
User asks for more information to understand the situation 🤔
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NTA. Cooking is not a one-person job, but it's not an excuse for getting annoyed and telling her to fuck off. Apologize and offer to help with meal planning. 🍴
AggravatingVehicle3 | AggravatingVehicle3
Different styles of meal planning work for different people! 😊
KennyKentagious | KennyKentagious
User calls out lack of compromise in relationship. 🙋🏻
iMarge | iMarge
Partner complains about meal planning, called immature by commenter. 😑
thetoiletslayer | thetoiletslayer
Compromise is key: shop separately and plan meals individually. 👍
lockerpunch | lockerpunch
Meal prepping differences caused a healthy debate 🤗🥦
MrsTBorst | MrsTBorst
Letting cravings decide your meal? Same here! 😂
Zagriel55 | Zagriel55
Compassionate response suggests deeper issues at play 👨👩👧🤔
phatpharm06 | phatpharm06
Being called YTA for struggling with meal planning 🤦♂️
ohgodidontknow1 | ohgodidontknow1
NAH comment suggests compromise for meal planning disagreement 👍
pumpkinbutt2-0 | pumpkinbutt2-0
"I don't care" only works if you're single 👅
PMKN_spc_Hotte | PMKN_spc_Hotte
NTA but YTA for belittling your gf's meal planning system 🤔
Informal-Wish | Informal-Wish
Meal planning is a nightmare for some, but compromising is key 😊
demigodontheinternet | demigodontheinternet
Partner wants to eat together, OP wants solo meals. NAH.
Logical-Natural | Logical-Natural
Compromise and communication are key. YTA for toxic behavior 🚫
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Meal planning can be tough, but compromising can help! 🍕👯
icanschwim | icanschwim
NTA for not wanting to plan every meal far in advance. A compromise could be thinking of a few meals ahead of time.
xxxpinguinos | xxxpinguinos
Partner's meal planning is important to her, respect her effort. 👍
Inallea | Inallea
Meal planning is normal. Don't be wasteful, consider your partner.
AGirlHasNoName2018 | AGirlHasNoName2018
YTA receives a scathing response for not caring about partner's mental health 😡
StockComprehensive96 | StockComprehensive96
Compromise on meal planning with a mature conversation 👍
Golden-Amethyst | Golden-Amethyst
Suggests ways to share meal planning responsibilities. Good luck! 🍴
jaded0lady | jaded0lady
Meal planning requires preplanning, compromise or eat alone. YTA.
potscfs | potscfs
NAH commenter suggests compromise for couple's meal planning differences 👍
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NAH. GF wants to plan meals together, but OP needs compromise.
JWJulie | JWJulie
Compromise is key: a generic list of supplies to make both happy! 👍
Mistress-DragonFlame | Mistress-DragonFlame
NAH. Communication is key. Just tell her meal prep isn't your thing.
maat89 | maat89
Understanding the root of controlling food behavior 🤔
magpie907 | magpie907
Meal planning: compromise and communicate for stress-free grocery shopping 👩🏻🍳
Neenwil | Neenwil
Communicate and compromise with your partner for meal planning harmony 🥳
lutzssuck | lutzssuck
Meal prep is important to her, compromising is key 🍲
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Man refuses to help with meal planning, called out for being selfish.
Radio_Caroline79 | Radio_Caroline79
Meal planning as weight maintenance: some people really need it 💪
Zealousideal_Plan408 | Zealousideal_Plan408
Compromise on meal planning or YTA? Discussion on balance.
karak15 | karak15
Planning meals together can save money and avoid arguments 👩🏻🍴
darkelf76 | darkelf76
Understanding each other's perspectives is key to resolving conflict 👍
WTFomelas | WTFomelas
Mismatched meal planning causing relationship trouble. Communication is key 👍
jana_kane | jana_kane
Roommate's meal planning is important for budget and schedule. YTA.
s10wanderer | s10wanderer
Different approaches to meal planning create incompatibility. Suggests compromise.
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Meal planning preferences vary. Have you asked her why?
GlumPie8709 | GlumPie8709
Being routined is better for health and money, YTA learn that 🙄
icecreampenis | icecreampenis
NTA. Commenter empathizes with OP's laid back approach to meal planning.
Straight-Example9126 | Straight-Example9126
NAH turns NTA as partner disregards opinions on meal planning 🤷🏻♂️
DuskLordX | DuskLordX
Man's fiscal irresponsibility causes conflict with girlfriend. YTA 🤪
lifesnotfair2u | lifesnotfair2u
Compromising on meal planning: finding staples and buying proteins often 🥳
ladyblue56 | ladyblue56
Food attachment can be cultural baggage, but understanding leads to compromise 🍝🤷♀️
beetboot889 | beetboot889
Planning meals can be a stress reliever, but it's not for everyone. NTA.
mandyay | mandyay
Understanding her anxiety around food and planning can prevent conflict.
twistandtangle | twistandtangle
OP comes off as aggressive towards partner's meal planning approach. NAH
Shyfox5319 | Shyfox5319
Planning meals saves money and time. YTA, try it 👍
mexibella255 | mexibella255
NTA, but YTA for your attitude towards meal planning 😒
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Meal planning helps with budget, health, and anxiety. NAH.
LoubieDoobyDoo | LoubieDoobyDoo
NTA for not wanting a meal plan but maybe gf needs therapy 🍝
BigBadVoodooMama | BigBadVoodooMama
Meal planning is important for budgeting and knowing what to buy. ESH for taking food she intended to cook with, but not a big deal.
casuallybrowsing21 | casuallybrowsing21
Meal planning struggles and relationship conflicts. YTA 🤷♀️
Misschikki777 | Misschikki777
Couple finds solution for meal planning differences 🥳
Zoenne | Zoenne
When her husband claimed he didn't want her planned meals... 🤔
allfreshoutofideas | allfreshoutofideas
30-minute meals: What does he cook? Who shops? Inquiring minds!
innerkinder | innerkinder
Meal planning saves money and time, YTA for not cooperating. 👍
Amiedeslivres | Amiedeslivres
NTA for not wanting to plan meals, but communication is key 👍
Jerratt24 | Jerratt24
Meal planning struggles due to aphantasia and lack of visualization 🤔
TeamOfPups | TeamOfPups
Planning meals on the way home = NTA. She needs chill 😎
acetrainerjayce | acetrainerjayce